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Anonymous, I am so sorry you are going through thi...

2012-02-19T22:44:01.056-08:00

Anonymous, I am so sorry you are going through this! I encourage you to come to the message boards here on PPN and talk whenever you need a listening ear and the wisdom of the women who gather here. In your situation it's hard to find women you can trust. All that DRAMA! Whew! Please know we are here for you and we are praying.

wow!!!!i am literially in tears..because im going ...

2012-02-01T17:37:03.205-08:00

wow!!!!i am literially in tears..because im going through a similar situation..but the only thing is my pastor and are dating,and were on the runway for marriage..he didnt introduce me as his girlfriend at first, to the congregation..but when he did, all hell broke loose..one paticular woman literially stop speaking to me..i told my fiance that she likes him...and she dont like me..because of you..she wants you...and she does all she can to get his attention..follows him around church..she wants me out the picture..she wants him..and would do anything she can to move me out the way!!!it hurts..i just wanna stop going to church!!!i dont want to hate her..but i know thats what shes trying to do..he says shes not,but i know better, and i know women..because i am a woman..

Anonymous - your post really concerns me. I believ...

2011-12-30T13:16:29.331-08:00

Anonymous - your post really concerns me. I believe this man has serious issues. He needs counseling, possibly deliverance, and I would bet my bottom dollar he has some issues in the closet that nobody knows about.

More than anything this pastor's wife needs a loyal supporter - somebody who would stand by her come what may - somebody who will keep her confidence at all cost. She needs an advocate. The best thing you can do is first of all, be loyal NO MATTER WHAT.

The second thing you can do is, give her a safe place. Without judgment.

Keep a watchful eye for anything dangerous. I wouldn't rule out that she might even be abused in some other way. Please watch out for her.

Nobody is standing in line to take care of her. Please be the one.

Answer this question for me anyone! What if you ar...

2011-12-21T19:46:20.490-08:00

Answer this question for me anyone! What if you are a Pastors wife and He said God told him not to have her involved in anything but he surrounds himself with other woman to do the job and told his wife that it's easier for him to work with women then men because Men have a take over spirit and heads would collide where as women don't and they will do anything the Paator says! I feel so bad for this lady! It's almost like the husband wants her to be seen and not heard! Your take pls.. What should she do? And what should I tell her?

Amazing! What really hit home, I's when you sa...

2011-12-20T21:44:00.458-08:00

Amazing! What really hit home, I's when you said if they were to live in your shoes they'd go crazy and that's the truth! Love covers a multitude of sins but God also said watch and pray and more importantly; like a sparrow! Today we have to be vigilant pertaining to our family and what God has entrusted us with! A wise woman builds her house and God structured it to where we are to be the help no matter what transpires.

These Women will have to give an account and with that being said we should always fixate on setting our faces like a flint. Everything I's a test; to build our character and most importantly how we will react to the issues He
allows to happen because He I's God! Everything I's for His glory! Be strong in the Lord and in the Power of His Might! It'll be a testament for someone else!

Thanks Keith! I appreciate you reading and taking...

2011-09-08T23:20:43.698-07:00

Thanks Keith! I appreciate you reading and taking time to comment.

Lynn, how pathetic that this is not the first time I've heard about someone hoping/praying a PW would die. Would you believe someone actually had the nerve to call my mother in law and tell her they had a prophetic dream that I died and their daughter and my husband were going to pastor our church together? My MIL said, "don't ever call here again!"

Another PW here on the message boards shared a while back (and just posted something today)about a lady in their church asking her husband if he would marry her if his wife (the PW) died!!!

This kind of crazy stuff happens more than people think. And you are right even after all these years it still hurts your heart when it happens.

great word Deanna - we've had (and still have)...

2011-09-08T15:41:02.402-07:00

great word Deanna - we've had (and still have) this lady in our churches through the years! One was bold enough to tell me she prayed I'd die. My God given discernment works pretty good to recognize this character after 35 years of practice. Although, every time it still hurts my heart.

WOW! Deanna, thanks so much for this powerful word...

2011-09-08T12:52:43.278-07:00

WOW! Deanna, thanks so much for this powerful word.